Shy Guy? How to Get A Girls Number!

So, one day in a bar, you see her enter the door with an aura of confidence. Then you see her talk to her friends and hear her angelic voice. Then you tell yourself, “I got to talk to her.” You, however, don’t know how to get a girls number. You don’t know how to approach her without looking like an idiot.

So, the first thing you have to know is how to catch her attention, too, the way that she caught yours. Since they chose to hang out in a bar, chances are these girls are really open to meeting people, making new friends, or even dating. You must tell your friends that you like this girl and that you are making a move to get to know her better. Together with your friends, approach them naturally. Do not be obnoxious. You will turn her off as you will look either pathetic or disgusting, especially if you are trying too hard.

Introduce yourselves casually, and when it is your turn, look her in the eyes and give her your best and most sincere smile. You may compliment her name as soon as she is introduced to you. Say something like “Really? Nice, that is my sister’s name too,” or maybe  “That is a cool name.” Make yourself memorable by giving her your nickname, especially if it sounds unique. The point here is to make her notice you. The point is to make a connection.

Once all of you are introduced, settle down and you can offer them some drinks or desserts. The main goal for you is to have a sensible conversation with the girl whom you like. You may engage them in a card game or show them a magic trick. You can also share jokes or talk about some of your beliefs. With this, she will remember you as someone who is fun to be with and with a brain to match.

Thank her for a lovely evening and just get to the point. Tell her something like “You know what, I really enjoyed this evening. Is it fine to call you?” And if she really liked your company, she would give you her number.