A woman’s need isn’t as complex as most men think. A woman dressed in Capri business suit is of no difference to a woman wearing a summery dress. There’s always going to be a touch of sensitivity most often ignored. How to approach a woman in movies doesn’t always work well in real life. The basic rule is to be yourself and to act natural.

If you’re trying to get to know a woman you like or instantly you get attracted to, the situation could be handled depending on several factors—the place for possible acquaintance, whether she’s with friends or by herself, and what’s she’s doing at that moment. It is important to note that no matter how strong her character is, a certain touch of subtleness is required. Being subtle helps ease any pessimist thoughts on you approaching her with intentions. You are a stranger and by that it means the first few words could illicit any possible initial reactions. Before you come up to say hi, you need to prepare by observing. A woman’s looks tells more about her personality. If she’s conservatively wearing a black formal dress or suit, then you need to be of someone with strong personality, if not has some sense to say. You don’t want to be turned down with “you are wasting my time” end. If she’s wearing a bright colored dress, reading a book and enjoying her coffee, then you found a free-will, eager-to-make-time-for- conversation woman. If she’s with friends laughing and enjoying a good chat, you need to understand that her friends’ opinion matters. The last impression they want to give their friends is hanging out and/or entertaining an undesirable stranger. Timing also plays an important factor. The nicest woman could be the least accommodating when she’s busy and/or running out of time. It’s not going to be a good time for what could have been a good approach if she’s too acquainted with whatever she’s doing.